2021-2022 e\u011fitim \u00f6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n 1. D\u00f6nemi bug\u00fcn sona erdi. Koronavir\u00fcs salg\u0131n\u0131 sonras\u0131 y\u00fcz y\u00fcze e\u011fitime ge\u00e7en \u00f6\u011frencilerin bekledi\u011fi yar\u0131y\u0131l tatili geldi. Tatil kadar sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131kla beklenen \u015feylerden biri de karneler oldu. Peki bu konuda ailelere neler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman ve Nursel \u00d6zdemir Kurumlar\u0131 Kurucusu Salih D\u00dcNDAR : Her \u00e7ocuk farkl\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi her \u00e7ocu\u011fun karneye g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi tepki de farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6stermektedir. Burada ebeveynlerin tutumu da \u00f6nemli bir rol oynamaktad\u0131r. Karne her ne kadar \u00e7ocu\u011fun akademik ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steren bir belge niteli\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131sa da al\u0131nan karne t\u00fcm akademik hayat\u0131 belirleyen tek g\u00f6sterge de\u011fildir. Beklenmeyen karne notlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ailenin olumsuz tepkileri \u00e7ocukta daha fazla kayg\u0131, endi\u015fe ve strese yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi kendine olan g\u00fcvenine de zarar vermektedir. Bu noktada \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilgi ve yeteneklerinin do\u011fru belirlenip belirlenmedi\u011fine bak\u0131larak eksik oldu\u011fu alanlar saptanmal\u0131 ve bu do\u011frultu da \u00e7ocu\u011fa y\u00f6nlendirme yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Her karne \u00e7ocu\u011fun zeka seviyesini yans\u0131tmamakla beraber ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z karnenin alt\u0131nda \u00e7ocuktan kaynaklanmayan sebepler de yer alabilir. \u00d6rne\u011fin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 koruyucu anne baba tutumu, yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 ebeveyn , y\u00fcksek beklenti gibi d\u0131\u015fsal nedenler de asl\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fun karne ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131na yans\u0131maktad\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fck karne notlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda verilen olumsuz tepkiler kadar a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6v\u00fcc\u00fc ve pahal\u0131 hediyeler ile verilen karne tepkileri de \u00e7ocu\u011fa zarar vermektedir. \u00c7ocuk t\u00fcm hayat\u0131 boyunca her ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131ndan sonra b\u00f6yle bir beklenti i\u00e7erisine girip istedi\u011fi tepkiyi g\u00f6remedi\u011fi zaman hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015famaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Peki bug\u00fcn elinde karneyle gelen \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131y\u0131z ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6ncelikle \u00c7ocu\u011fu su\u00e7lamak, ele\u015ftirmek, k\u0131yaslamak kendisini daha da k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetmesine sebep olaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011fun olumlu y\u00f6nleri \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131karmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 not \u00fczerinden de\u011ferlendirme yapmak yerine d\u00f6nem boyunca g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u00e7abas\u0131na ve eme\u011fine vurgu yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Karne ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 her ne olursa olsun ebeveynleri taraf\u0131ndan ko\u015fulsuz sevildi\u011fini hissetmesi \u00f6zg\u00fcveni a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir. 4 ayl\u0131k yo\u011fun bir e\u011fitim \u00f6\u011fretimin ard\u0131ndan yar\u0131y\u0131l tatilinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n zihinlerinin ve bedenlerinin dinlemeye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclerek hareket edilmelidir. Yar\u0131y\u0131l tatilinde onlar\u0131n keyif alacaklar\u0131, geli\u015fimlerini destekleyici ve ikinci yar\u0131y\u0131la motive olmu\u015f bir \u015fekilde ba\u015flamalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacak etkinliklere yer verilmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unutmay\u0131n ki hi\u00e7bir karne tam olarak akademik ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131tmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc e\u011fitim uzun soluklu bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. Her ne olursa olsun her durumda ko\u015fulsuz onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
2021-2022 e\u011fitim \u00f6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n 1. D\u00f6nemi bug\u00fcn sona erdi. Koronavir\u00fcs salg\u0131n\u0131 sonras\u0131 y\u00fcz y\u00fcze e\u011fitime ge\u00e7en \u00f6\u011frencilerin bekledi\u011fi yar\u0131y\u0131l tatili geldi. Tatil kadar sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131kla beklenen \u015feylerden biri de karneler oldu. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9175,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9174","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9174","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9174"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9174\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9176,"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9174\/revisions\/9176"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9175"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9174"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9174"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ramsagroupkurumlari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9174"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}